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Doug, you have no blame in this. There are so many things that influence every one of us every day. When a person makes a decision like that they are not in their right mind anyway.
I felt that way about my cousin's death a few years ago. He was on a cross country trip and came to visit. He stayed for a couple of days and we partied most of the night the night before he left. A few hours later he pulled out in front of a semi in hi VW van and was killed. I couldn't help but feel that if he had gotten more sleep he would not have made that decision. After the shock I realised that he had also made that decision and I didn't own it. You need to see the same thing about your freind.
We all need to realise that it can happen to any of us at any time, maby you tomorrow, maby me. That's why it's so important to live our lives like there is no tommorow, and show the people in our lives that we love them today.
Hal
Love hard, drive fast, wear your seat belt.
PS, that's my 'bird...... My Mustang is too ugly to take pictures of yet........*G*.
http://www.teleport.com/~cosa/bird2.jpg
I felt that way about my cousin's death a few years ago. He was on a cross country trip and came to visit. He stayed for a couple of days and we partied most of the night the night before he left. A few hours later he pulled out in front of a semi in hi VW van and was killed. I couldn't help but feel that if he had gotten more sleep he would not have made that decision. After the shock I realised that he had also made that decision and I didn't own it. You need to see the same thing about your freind.
We all need to realise that it can happen to any of us at any time, maby you tomorrow, maby me. That's why it's so important to live our lives like there is no tommorow, and show the people in our lives that we love them today.
Hal
Love hard, drive fast, wear your seat belt.
PS, that's my 'bird...... My Mustang is too ugly to take pictures of yet........*G*.
http://www.teleport.com/~cosa/bird2.jpg
