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O/T rant Son really sick Sorry

1.2K views 14 replies 13 participants last post by  67fstbk  
#1 ·
Sorry but I like to vent. My son, Riley, will be 9 in January. In Oct of 2002 he started to loose energy. Living in the Lyme disease capitol, he was treated twice for the disease by the pediatrician. Then in December he started to develop a rash on his face and his joints. We took him to a dermatologist and was treated for eczema. Then in Feb 2003 the poor guy could not get off the couch. We took him to a Lyme disease specialist who said that he did not have Lyme disease but to see the dermatologist again. So, back to the dermatologist’s office where a new physician’s assistant said that he recognized Riley’s symptoms from a textbook he had recently read. The Dr. came in and confirmed the diagnosis. They shipped him directly to Yale New Haven Children’s Hospital. We spent a week there and was told that he had a very rare form of Muscular Dystrophy called Juvenile Dermatomyositis. I am told there are only 2000 kids in the US with this disease. He was put on a high dose of prednisone (75mg/day). He started to taper off the drug in May when he was able to go back to school. He progressed well though the summer tapering down to 25mg/day. In November, he slid back significantly and was out of school for 3 weeks. Tuesday he did not look well and my wife called Yale. Our Dr. up there said bring him in on Wednesday.

Wednesday, we saw the Dr. and the decision was made to put him on this stuff called Methotrexate which is used for rheumatoid arthritis and as a chemo drug. Then yesterday, he went for his eye exam that he needs every 6 months because of the prednisone and his disease. The eye Dr. told us that the prednisone is now causing cataracts and glaucoma.

It just seems that every day, I wake up and someone kicks me in the stomach. All this, after losing a brother firefighter in a fire on Tuesday. Will it ever end? Everyone says that the man doesn’t give you more than you can handle. I don’t know about that!!

Hope your holidays are better :(
 
#2 ·
I am so sorry to hear about your sons illness.

Everyone says that the man doesn’t give you more than you can handle. I don’t know about that!!
These last 2 years have not been that great. Just this year, there were 2 cases of breast cancer in my family, diabetes, and a family member tried to commit suicide. :(

I hope you all feel better Christmas day.

Justin
 
#3 ·
That is just horrible. I pray every day that my kids will go on to live a healthy and happy life. But I know that there are too many kids out there who just aren't given the chance.

I give a lot of dough every year to Children's Hospital in Mpls for research prevention of cancer. I have a hard time thinking about those kids that just don't have a shot at life.

I hope your boy makes it through this. Your family has been dealt this card and you have no choice but to play it. Keep up the good work and think positive thoughts.
 
#4 ·
I'm so sorry to hear about your son's ailment. He, and your family will be in our prayers.
 
#6 ·
Man Mike, I am so sorry. Just rember, you have to be strong for him. I know it can be draning on you but he has to lean on some one. In turn you can lean on me and us at the VMF. God bless you and your family. We will hold you and yours in our prayers. If you need some one to vent to just PM me and I'll do what I can. If fact every one on this site will help hold you up.


Dave
 
#7 ·
Mike, sorry to hea rabout your son's illness. It sounds like he has been suffering for a long time. All we ever want is for our children to do better in life than we have. I pray that mine makes a far better life than I ever have. And God has blessed me tremendously - not in riches or rewards, but in the love of a family. It's tough to see them suffer, especially at such a young age. God will not give you more than you can handle. I will pray for your comfort and strength to get thru this situation. Be strong, my friend. Tony
 
#8 ·
Dave, A-men. Tony
 
#9 ·
Just when you think you can't take any more, another kick in the stomach; that is a tough place to be. May God be with you all and hold your hands; I pray that you, your wife, and son find strength to endure these times.
 
#11 ·
You and Your Family are in my prayers. God Bless you and Yours, Dawn
 
#12 ·
Hang in there Mike God truly doesnt put more on us than we can handle even though sometimes it sure seems that Way. Never give up, your on an unfamilier road and around that next sharp turn could be that straight road to the winners circle. But no one ever arrives at the place they want to be if they dont complete the journey. My prayers be with you and yours. May god bless you. Rick (ponyperson)
 
#13 ·
Mike...so sorry to hear about your son..my prayers are with the little guy..remember we are almost family on this forum..you and I are within a few miles of each other..if there is anything I can do to help..please ring me..even if you just want to talk Mustangs or slip off for a beer and some conversation..I am available..I sent you a PM with my number..ring me anytime..
 
#14 ·
On behalf of my wife and sons, I want to thank you for all your support. This has not been easy on us as a family. It has required many sacrifices from everyone including my 7 year old, Tom, who really doesn't understand why Riley is so sick.