They are likely telling you to install the washers backwards because poly bushings are not a good idea for strut ruds.
I have some old installations papers from a poly bushing set and in very big letters it says "install the washers backwards" and also have a picture showing that the washers have to be put on backwards.
I think most of the problem with broken struts using poly bushings, is that people mount them wrong. I know a guy who have done some testing and measured the bushing stiffness. I dont have his numbers but I think you needed like 4 or 5 times the force to move the strut the same distance up or down with poly and washers placed like stock vs new rubber. With the washers backwards there was very little difference in stiffness up/down poly vs rubber.
Even the Moog ( k8122) rubber bushings are designed to have the washers backwards. Thats was i have on my car.
Just see Shawns broken strut picture.... the washers are mounted wrong!!
My poly bushing papers dont show a torque number but it big letters say "tighten until snug" and warns about overtightening the bushing. It also says that it can require some slight trimming (sand or file) of the bushing on 64-66 cars.